Damn it's cold in here!


If it is one thing that pisses me off to the heights of pissivity it is rude ass self absorbed people. People who are so oblivious to the wants and needs of others that they could really give a f*#k about you, how you feel and or how their behavior impacts you. I realize that everyone has the potential to get on a nerve every now and then....but, I am taking issue in this post with repeat offenders. Perhaps it is because I, for so long, operated from this standpoint of self absorption that I get so incensed by this breed - but whatever the case....they piss me off.
You know the kind- people who find a way to revert every conversation you have with them, back to their favorite subject of THEM! People who complain all the damn time about how they have been slighted or wronged and just cant let shit go. People who insist upon having their way or having their two cents be heard, even when you have agreed that they are right, have been right and will always be right. Last but not least people, like my rude ass co-worker, who walked her happy ass into MY office today and turned the air-conditioner on full blast without asking my permission! Had papers on my bulletin board flapping in the wind it was blowing so hard. I was cold as f*&k and those of you who know me know that I DO NOT like to be cold.
Growing up, my grandmother did not like the air-conditioner to blow directly on her- said she had thin blood. Well, I must have inherited my thin blood from granny, bc I would much rather be hot than cold on any given day. When I proposed that we turn the one air conditioner off and another, on the other side of the room on, this heifer had the nasty ass gall to pull a tissue from under her armpit, wipe it and make a face and say "well, I don't know if that will work." To keep from cussing her ass out, I announced (with an attitude) that I was leaving and started packing up my laptop. She then jumped up to turn the air off and started becoming a little more optimistic about the promise of my initial suggestion.
First of all, it was like 9:00 a.m, she is lucky that I did not just go and turn the shit off, sans suggestion, in the first damn place. Suffice it to say, I left my office and went to another office in another school where only the janitors and secretaries were in....it is summer time and school is out for most people. I left her, and her ice sickle laden apologies in the damn dust.
This chick is one of the same offenders who is always asking me personal questions about my life, giving me far too much information about hers and just all around getting on my nerves at work. One time, she went out to dinner with a group of us and did not have enough money! WTF! Typically, I don't socialize with work folk after work, unless we are real cool. On that occasion, she reminded me why. Typically, I do not let folks at work and their shananigans get to me as she did today. Knowing me, I am sure that by tomorrow I will have softened a bit on my extreme pissivity with her. For now, I pray that she and her sweaty arm pits stay the hell away from me.
Forgive me ya'll, I just had to get that out....thanks for listening,
Signed,
Cold ass KC
Comments
Ignore them if you can or just plainly tell then how it is like you did.
The best action is to brush them off...they are not worth worrying over...don't waste your time
I get your thing about the cold...i cannot stand it. A guy in my office once open the windows in winter....!!! i responded by putting on my winter coat scarf and starting coughing like i was about to keel over and die...he quickly shut it!!! LOL
Nice blog...first time here
unfortunately in my world there is no shortage of butt holes
sometimes its difficult to phase them out especially when you have to work with them
don't you just hate the way they irk you lol
maybe they are q test from god or something
just wish I didn't have to deal with them every day
I have to laugh at myself after I have let one of them infiltrate the force field, brush it off, forgive myself for showing my behind and try to do better next time. But, it really was cold- LOL
your sistah friend...FJ